Starting school
Transition to school is not just a process that happens in the last few weeks of a child's nursery year. Helping children to be resilient, confident learners, who settle well into school is a process that takes time.
Helping your child transition to primary school: a parent’s guide
Starting school is a major milestone in a child’s life - and for parents too. Here are some ideas to help your child feel confident and prepared for their first day.
Talk about school together
Begin by having open conversations with your child about what school will be like:
- chat about what they think school will be like
- ask what they’re excited or worried about
- reassure them that feeling nervous is normal
- share stories of past experiences like starting nursery
Use books to spark conversation
Reading stories about starting school can help children understand what to expect:
- I Am Too Absolutely Small for School by Lauren Child
- Starting School by Janet and Allen Ahlberg
- Topsy and Tim Start School by Jean and Gareth Adamson
- Harry and the Dinosaurs Go to School by Ian Whybrow
- Come to School Too, Blue Kangaroo
These books are available at local libraries or online through Cumbria’s library services.
Explore the school environment
Help your child become familiar with their new surroundings:
visit the school website to see photos of staff, classrooms and outdoor areas
learn about drop-off and pick-up routines, PE kits, timetables and lunch menus
Practice daily routines
Try out the school day schedule in advance to build confidence:
do a practice school run to get used to the route and timing
adjust morning routines to match school start times
gradually reduce afternoon naps if needed
Focus on practical skills over academics
School readiness is more about independence than academic ability. Support your child in developing these everyday skills:
- recognise their teacher and know who to ask for help
- use the toilet independently and wash hands properly
- dress and undress with ease using elastic waists and velcro shoes
- identify their name and belongings with clear labels
- use cutlery and carry a tray
- open lunch containers and wipe their nose with tissues
- tidy up toys and hang up coats
Create a scrapbook
Making a scrapbook together is a fun way to help your child express themselves:
- include drawings, photos and notes about their favourite things
- add pictures of family members, pets and special memories
- share the scrapbook with their new teacher to help them get to know your child
Find more resources
Explore these helpful tools and websites for additional support: