Skills to practice before starting reception

Growing independence

Child buttoning shirt

Taking care of themselves

  • putting on/taking off their coat and shoes
  • using the toilet and washing their hands
  • getting dressed with little help, e.g. after using the toilet or doing PE
  • using cutlery (e.g. fork and spoon, chopsticks) and drinking from an open cup
  • spending time away from you, learning they can be looked after by caring adults

Play, creativity and curiosity

  • taking part in imaginative play (e.g. role play)
  • drawing, painting, colouring and sticking
  • sharing story books, looking at pictures and talking about the characters
  • exploring the world around them (e.g. looking closely at the natural world, playing safely with objects at home

Online information and guidance

This section brings together expert advice, practical tips, and playful inspiration to help your child grow in independence, take care of themselves, and explore the world with curiosity. From getting dressed in the morning to imaginative role play in the afternoon, these links offer guidance you can count on - and ideas your child will love.

Explore the topics below to find what works best for your family.

Growing independence

Check out Parentkind's online advice hub and magazine for parents 'Be School Ready'
Enjoy Family Corner's 5 tips to help your child get ready for Reception
Guidance for parents and practitioners - PACEY
Download the free EasyPeasy mobile app for tips and activities to support everyday parenting moments

Taking care of themselves

How can you make separating easier? - Family Corner
Getting dressed and ready for the day - backward chaining information sheet - NHS (PDF, 820KB) 
Getting ready for the day - BBC

Toilet training

Simple and supportive toilet training advice - ERIC
Potty training and bedwetting - NHS
Pants4School - Down Syndrome UK

Playing, creativity and curiosity

5 steps for brain building through serve and return - Center on the Developing Child at Harvard University
How to follow a child's interest in play - National Literacy Trust
How to role play with your child - Pretend role play - BBC
How to role play with your child - Playing pretend animals - BBC
Fire up their imagination with drawing - BBC
What is mark-making and why is it important for learning? - PACEY
Sharing story books on World Book Day - BBC
Nature activities for children - BBC
Learning and having fun on the bus - BBC
Play a game of 'What's that sound?' - BBC